DOMMED

Edge Play: Try These Psychological BDSM Mind Games

Gemma and Seraphyna explore the intoxicating depths of psychological edge play—where fear is fabricated, confusion is a crucible, and desire and dread might be the same thing. Unlike some BDSM and FemDom play, psychological edge play goes beyond control or power. It’s about penetrating the submissive’s deepest sense of self, reframing the ego, and challenging core assumptions.
Together, the hosts explore shadow play, fear play, and mindfuckery as tools a Dominatrix wields to expand limits of trust and identity. From evoking genuine terror to questioning reality, psychological edge play walks the razor’s edge between the conscious and subconscious. And the reward for those who face it? Catharsis. Liberation. Self-revelation. A bond forged in radical trust.
 
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References: http://dommedpodcast.com/resources
Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com 
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
00:25 – What is psychological edge play?
06:40 – What is subspace?
10:20 – Is psychological edge play linked to trauma?
18:40 – Types of psychological edge play
24:10 – How male subs mindfuck themselves
27:00 – Story time: psychological edge play
31:32 – Outro
 

Dedicating His Whole Life To A Dominatrix

Seraphyna interviews Gemma’s collared FemDom submissive, pups. From mantras and monitoring to growth and trust, Gemma and pups’ dynamic is one of total power exchange. Cameras watch him in his apartment. Software tracks his phone. But still, limits exist. The care and fulfillment in their dynamic extends to both sides of the D/s slash.
Pups explains what their dynamic means to him, the most challenging part of serving his Mistress, and why he would do anything to please her. This isn’t just an interview, it’s a living portrait of devotion—a testament to submission in its purest form.
 
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Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com 
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
00:25 – A new perspective: Gemma’s pup
03:38 – What makes humiliation enticing
06:26 – How psychological and physical intensity differ
10:20 – Total power exchange
13:30 – Protocols and rituals in the dynamic
15:17 – CNC: monitoring, tracking, financial control
18:49 – How Gemma makes pups better
20:49 – Pups’ motivations for serving Gemma
23:19 – How submission and motivation are related
26:00 – The hardest part of serving Gemma
29:47 – Advice for subs looking for lifestyle D/s dynamic
34:00 – How was trust built in their dynamic
37:14 – How the dynamic contributes to pups’ life
38:33 – What’s the most fulfilling part for Gemma
40:50 – Has pups ever questioned their dynamic
42:38 – Outro

What It’s Like to Be a Dominatrix Under Anti-Sex Worker Laws

Gemma and Seraphyna pull back the curtain on the shifting legal landscape of sex work—whether as a Dominatrix, escort, stripper, or online. As political tides rise against porn, gender identity, and online expression, one question cuts through the noise: How does a sex worker stay safe?
From red-light districts to surveillance states, the legal frameworks around sex work are a tangled web, each with its own promises and pitfalls. And in the information age, things aren’t safer. Bank accounts are frozen. AI scans your face at borders. Social platforms blur privacy rights. 
Beneath it all lies a story of stigma, safety, and survival. It’s about the power dynamics hidden in legal systems—and the people they fail. Who writes the law, and who pays the price when the law gets it wrong?
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References: http://dommedpodcast.com/resources
Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com
 
CHAPTERS: 
00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
00:25 – Sex work and the world
01:32 – What is sex work?
02:22 – The legal frameworks of sex work
08:00 – SESTA/FOSTA: US law and adult content
10:02 – Oklahoma’s proposed ban on porn
11:06 – The executive order on gender
12:46 – Back to the past: Legalizing discrimination
14:44 – How laws decide the legality of BDSM practices
16:04 – International models: Belgium and NZ
16:50 – International models: Germany, Switzerland, UK
19:03 – The Nordic Model: Norway, Sweden, Ireland
21:22 – How tech and AI can make sex work unsafe
23:01 – Digital safety and privacy in sex work
28:28 – Outro

Is BDSM the New Religion? What You Didn’t Know About Power and Belief

In this episode, Gemma and Seraphyna explore the sacred intersections of religion and BDSM—two worlds steeped in ritual, hierarchy, and worship. A FemDom scene becomes a holy ceremony. The Dominatrix, a living deity. The submissive, a devoted disciple. And laid bare at St. Andrew’s cross, every moan is a prayer.
Through these parallels, the hosts reflect on their religious pasts and how early frameworks of faith, guilt, and omnipresence shaped their practices in power exchange. Together, they unpack how intentional power can transform shame into liberation.
But like any true faith, submission demands more than lip service. Salvation requires confession, surrender, and unwavering devotion. So—are you ready to kneel and confess?
 
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Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
00:25 – Childhood experiences with religion
05:05 – Parallels from God and Domme to religious law and protocol
06:45 – How D/s dynamics deconstruct purity to explore the taboo
08:53 – Unity and devotion between a Domme and sub
12:35 – How confession and accountability surface in kink
14:43 – Gender and power in religion: Nuns and drill sergeants
20:37 – How Gemma rediscovered her power in the feminine
22:22 – Must a submissive man give up his masculinity?
24:23 – How the spiritual reinvented Seraphyna
25:54 – Gemma’s ideal devotion to her divine feminine
28:00 – Are Dommes allowed to feel? How care and affection surface
32:40 – Outro

Dominatrix Fantasies You’ve Never Heard Before

In this episode, explore fantasies of BDSM and FemDom as Gemma and Seraphyna bare their deepest desires and kinky beginnings from long before either became a pro Dominatrix. From the imprint of a movie to dreams of being worshipped like Cleopatra, and even the weight of a strict religious upbringing, the hosts unravel how early experiences have shaped fantasies at play in their D/s dynamics today.
For some, fantasies provide comfort. For others, it’s the power to make someone squirm. But more often, fantasies are something deeper—a way to feel what we’re too afraid to ask for in the light.
So the question becomes: Will you live out your fantasy or someone else’s? And in the heat of a scene—does it matter?
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Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com 
 
CHAPTERS: 
00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
00:25 – Fantasies and styles of dominating
06:36 – Early signs of dominance and understanding the submissive mind
12:06 – Gemma’s first fantasy of dominance
15:50– How Seraphyna became Goddess: Religious explorations
19:10 – Tiptoeing the edge, Gemma’s ultimate fantasy
20:50 – Kink empathy and shared experience
24:50 – How submission and service continue outside a scene
26:35 – What are Domspace and subspace?
29:35 – The breadth of human experience
31:57 – Bondage as a symbol of surrender
32:50 – How immobilization can free you
36:20 – A public humiliation fantasy

From Ancient Goddess to Today: The Provocative History of Female Dominance

This episode Gemma and Seraphyna unravel the provocative, often overlooked history of Femdom and BDSM. From an ancient goddess to today’s online Dominatrix, the story of female dominance is not one without challenges. It’s a tale of cunning intellect, deep understanding of humanity, and a craving for unabashed acceptance. Whether humiliating an ancient Greek philosopher or winning a landmark Supreme Court case after wrongful incarceration, women have carved their space—and fiercely defended it. These victories aren’t free. They demand sacrifice. And this is only the beginning.
As Gemma and Seraphyna recap the evolution of the kink scene, they’ll reveal its undeniable grip on pop culture. Be it film, fashion, or music, kink commands attention. It's impossible to look away.
 
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References: https://www.dommedpodcast.com/resources
Connect: http://dommedpodcast.com
Gemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com
Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com
 
CHAPTERS: 
00:00 – Episode teaser
00:09 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
00:35 – The earliest record of female dominance
07:15 – A famous Greek philosopher is humiliated by a woman
11:12 – How a horse made a Dominatrix famous
15:05 – How a provider was incarcerated and won at the Supreme Court
17:36 – The kink scene of the 80s and 90s
18:43 – What’s Club Kid and how did it influence fashion decades later
23:21 – What makes the modern kink scene different from other eras
27:23 – The challenges BDSM practitioners and providers face today
28:05 – Balancing risk and expression through sharing kink
29:35 – Is kink sexual or intellectual?
31:45 – Outro

How Curiosity Turns Into Control: An Interview with Seraphyna

This episode of DOMMED Podcast, Gemma interviews Goddess Seraphyna—a new Dominatrix but lifestyle kinkster whose world of FemDom illuminates the shadows instead of hiding in them. From a successful career in sales to a new journey into the unexposed darkness of humanity, Seraphyna embraces authenticity at every step—but she wasn’t always this way. 
Hear her stories of grappling with self-expression and confronting false assumptions, and learn how she became an accidental Dominatrix for the very first time. Her style isn’t simply power exchange; it’s a radical dismantling of societal roles and expectations—an unearthing of authenticity and liberation. Under her protection, Seraphyna frees the boys who were beaten out of men. She invites all of her cute little monsters to breathe, be safe, and share. Welcome to connection, discovery, expression, and healing—in their rawest forms.
 
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Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com 
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Episode teaser, Seraphyna’s first Domme experience
00:44 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
01:10 – An Interview with Seraphyna
02:12 – What excites her most as a new Domme
03:55 – The cute little monster with a really big shadow
05:08 – What is one’s darkness and is it bad?
06:19 – The origin of the accidental Dominatrix
10:54 – Is a Dominatrix born or made?
12:17 – The kind of submissives Seraphyna seeks
14:39 – What Seraphyna hopes to learn as a pro Dominatrix
15:54 – Societal pressures in Seraphyna’s life
17:50 – Grappling with expression, perception, and authenticity
19:33 – An encounter with light pink polka dots
21:56 – Dominance: Is it masculine or feminine?
23:57 – Is kink born from trauma?
30:05 – Finding the inner child
31:07 – What kink surprised Seraphyna
35:50 – Outro

Power, Seduction, and Mastery: Inside the Mind of Gemma Li

This episode of DOMMED, Seraphyna interviews internationally acclaimed Dominatrix Mistress Gemma Li. From stories of consensual BDSM edge play and psychological surrender to a submissive's most vulnerable confession, see how Gemma wields her enchanting style of new-age Femdom to challenge misconceptions. Her practice isn't rooted in pain or degradation. It's vulnerability. Trust. Surrender. Transformation.
Hear the traits that define a good sub, and learn how Gemma embodies power—not just to break, but to rebuild—uncovering whispered shames and awakening self-discovery. This is not performance. It’s psychology, intimacy, and truth—laid bare.
This is BDSM with depth.
 
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Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Episode teaser, making a sub cry
00:50 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
01:15 – Interview introduction
02:25 – Misconceptions of being a Domme
04:40 – Building connection with a sub
07:45 – Can a submissive be masculine?
09:43 – What makes the perfect submissive?
13:11 – Gemma’s style of new-age femdom
18:09 – Meaningful, vulnerable moments in D/s
20:37 – Favorite gestures in a D/s dynamic
22:40 – Gemma’s edge play stories
29:10 – A surprisingly enjoyable kink
32:16 – Outro