DOMMED

Dominatrix Fantasies You’ve Never Heard Before: The Playful. The Taboo. The Unexpected.

In this episode, explore fantasies of BDSM and FemDom as Gemma and Seraphyna bare their deepest desires and kinky beginnings from long before either became a pro Dominatrix. From the imprint of a movie to dreams of being worshipped like Cleopatra, and even the weight of a strict religious upbringing, the hosts unravel how early experiences have shaped fantasies at play in their D/s dynamics today.
For some, fantasies provide comfort. For others, it’s the power to make someone squirm. But more often, fantasies are something deeper—a way to feel what we’re too afraid to ask for in the light.
So the question becomes: Will you live out your fantasy or someone else’s? And in the heat of a scene—does it matter?
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Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com 
 
CHAPTERS: 
00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
00:25 – Fantasies and styles of dominating
06:36 – Early signs of dominance and understanding the submissive mind
12:06 – Gemma’s first fantasy of dominance
15:50– How Seraphyna became Goddess: Religious explorations
19:10 – Tiptoeing the edge, Gemma’s ultimate fantasy
20:50 – Kink empathy and shared experience
24:50 – How submission and service continue outside a scene
26:35 – What are Domspace and subspace?
29:35 – The breadth of human experience
31:57 – Bondage as a symbol of surrender
32:50 – How immobilization can free you
36:20 – A public humiliation fantasy

From Ancient Goddess to Today: The Provocative History of Female Dominance

This episode Gemma and Seraphyna unravel the provocative, often overlooked history of Femdom and BDSM. From an ancient goddess to today’s online Dominatrix, the story of female dominance is not one without challenges. It’s a tale of cunning intellect, deep understanding of humanity, and a craving for unabashed acceptance. Whether humiliating an ancient Greek philosopher or winning a landmark Supreme Court case after wrongful incarceration, women have carved their space—and fiercely defended it. These victories aren’t free. They demand sacrifice. And this is only the beginning.
As Gemma and Seraphyna recap the evolution of the kink scene, they’ll reveal its undeniable grip on pop culture. Be it film, fashion, or music, kink commands attention. It's impossible to look away.
 
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Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com
 
CHAPTERS: 
00:00 – Episode teaser
00:09 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
00:35 – The earliest record of female dominance
07:15 – A famous Greek philosopher is humiliated by a woman
11:12 – How a horse made a Dominatrix famous
15:05 – How a provider was incarcerated and won at the Supreme Court
17:36 – The kink scene of the 80s and 90s
18:43 – What’s Club Kid and how did it influence fashion decades later
23:21 – What makes the modern kink scene different from other eras
27:23 – The challenges BDSM practitioners and providers face today
28:05 – Balancing risk and expression through sharing kink
29:35 – Is kink sexual or intellectual?
31:45 – Outro

How Curiosity Turns Into Control: An Interview with Seraphyna

This episode of DOMMED Podcast, Gemma interviews Goddess Seraphyna—a new Dominatrix but lifestyle kinkster whose world of FemDom illuminates the shadows instead of hiding in them. From a successful career in sales to a new journey into the unexposed darkness of humanity, Seraphyna embraces authenticity at every step—but she wasn’t always this way. 
Hear her stories of grappling with self-expression and confronting false assumptions, and learn how she became an accidental Dominatrix for the very first time. Her style isn’t simply power exchange; it’s a radical dismantling of societal roles and expectations—an unearthing of authenticity and liberation. Under her protection, Seraphyna frees the boys who were beaten out of men. She invites all of her cute little monsters to breathe, be safe, and share. Welcome to connection, discovery, expression, and healing—in their rawest forms.
 
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Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com 
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Episode teaser, Seraphyna’s first Domme experience
00:44 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
01:10 – An Interview with Seraphyna
02:12 – What excites her most as a new Domme
03:55 – The cute little monster with a really big shadow
05:08 – What is one’s darkness and is it bad?
06:19 – The origin of the accidental Dominatrix
10:54 – Is a Dominatrix born or made?
12:17 – The kind of submissives Seraphyna seeks
14:39 – What Seraphyna hopes to learn as a pro Dominatrix
15:54 – Societal pressures in Seraphyna’s life
17:50 – Grappling with expression, perception, and authenticity
19:33 – An encounter with light pink polka dots
21:56 – Dominance: Is it masculine or feminine?
23:57 – Is kink born from trauma?
30:05 – Finding the inner child
31:07 – What kink surprised Seraphyna
35:50 – Outro

Power, Seduction, and Mastery: Inside the Mind of Gemma Li

This episode of DOMMED, Seraphyna interviews internationally acclaimed Dominatrix Mistress Gemma Li. From stories of consensual BDSM edge play and psychological surrender to a submissive's most vulnerable confession, see how Gemma wields her enchanting style of new-age Femdom to challenge misconceptions. Her practice isn't rooted in pain or degradation. It's vulnerability. Trust. Surrender. Transformation.
Hear the traits that define a good sub, and learn how Gemma embodies power—not just to break, but to rebuild—uncovering whispered shames and awakening self-discovery. This is not performance. It’s psychology, intimacy, and truth—laid bare.
This is BDSM with depth.
 
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Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.com Seraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Episode teaser, making a sub cry
00:50 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast
01:15 – Interview introduction
02:25 – Misconceptions of being a Domme
04:40 – Building connection with a sub
07:45 – Can a submissive be masculine?
09:43 – What makes the perfect submissive?
13:11 – Gemma’s style of new-age femdom
18:09 – Meaningful, vulnerable moments in D/s
20:37 – Favorite gestures in a D/s dynamic
22:40 – Gemma’s edge play stories
29:10 – A surprisingly enjoyable kink
32:16 – Outro
 

What is DOMMED? Indulge In All Things Kinky

Step inside the world of BDSM, FemDom, and power exchange with the premiere episode of DOMMED—a podcast hosted by professional Dominatrices and lifestyle kinksters Mistress Gemma Li and Goddess Seraphyna.
In this debut, your hosts share how DOMMED was born, reveal their personal journeys into kink and domination, and set the stage for future episodes that blend real-life D/s experiences, kink psychology, and societal perspectives on FemDom. You'll get a taste of what’s to come: unfiltered conversations about submission, taboo desire, BDSM myths, and the complexity of conscious power dynamics.
Whether you’re a seasoned or curious kinkster, or just craving depth beyond the mainstream, this is your invitation to witness kink through a radically honest, nuanced lens.
Are you ready to be DOMMED?
 
Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube.
 
Connect: http://dommedpodcast.comGemma Li: http://mistressgemmali.comSeraphyna: http://theseraphyna.com
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 -  Welcome to DOMMED
00:25 - Meet your hosts
02:25 - How DOMMED began
07:53 - Seraphyna's start as a Domme
09:59 - How Gemma became a pro-Dominatrix
12:36 - Outro